Post by keres on Jun 17, 2004 4:36:22 GMT -5
In one local site here, a discussion is taking place about the age difference between couples...It`s pretty interesting, so I thought making this thread here also.
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What do you think of it? Why it seems to be normal if a woman dates a 30 years older man, but if a woman is with a lets say 10 years younger guy then people start looking..?
It`s a mostly a women talk there, here`s some comments that they wrote there so far...(Translation with my own words) One woman tells that the man should be older because she can`t quite talk the same with a boyfriend who`s same age as she..He doesn`t understand her well enough, she says man must be at least 20 years older, as more experienced man knows better all that and can comfort her better...She also says that the couples with pretty much the same age don`t last long, mainly `cause of this...
One tells that she knows a married couple where girl is 19 and a guy is 77! That`s not normal for sure..They also have 2 children already..
Other woman tells about her friend, who is 31 and married with a 59 year old man..That friend has said to her that she`s not expecting this relationship to last more than 10 years..Husband will be old then, but she`ll be without any financal problems then and will start looking for a 5-6 years younger guy..
( So one reason is the money of course...Women find themselves a rich man and then simply enjoy life. To me it doesn`t sound very bad actually, I wouldn`t mind dating a rich girl if to think about it, but still something is not right about this...Women who are there only for money are just...
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She also says that nowadays almost all young females think like that! They are looking for a wealthy man!
One other woman says though, that she can`t even imagine a relationship with a 10 years older man..No, no..Only guys close to her own age will do..
Then there`s a 15 year old girl telling that between her friends (all mostly at the same age), they only talk about guys in 30s...
But one woman tells that she is with a 15 year old younger guy and everything is as good as it gets..Already three years together..They go out all the time and really enjoy each other, but..they haven`t had sex yet though.. It is she who wants it that way.
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The other woman that replied to her post, said "why you don`t want it then? Go ahead..it`s nothing wrong"
Then there is comment, that young woman think that with a wealthy man they are secured and without all the worries and the money just makes them blind, it`s not the REAL love...They`re just inexperienced in life. What they don`t realise is that an older man wants only one thing from them - good and fresh fuck! ...so he sort of only "uses" a younger woman, to feel himself a younger again..There can`t be no real love there. Sometimes a very bad man may happen to be and then the poor young girls get beaten up lots of times and get a lot of hurt in other ways from this kind of relationship..So it`s not good.
Then there`s one Triin who tells: "Why women think, that it`s always got to be an older guy...it very well aslo may be a younger one. I myself look younger and... I met with a guy who is 13 years younger than me. Younger...and it all goes just good, and I believe better, than if I`d be with a guy who is 13 years older..."
Reply to Triin was: Young guys aren`t very good, he will soon dump you and go find another one for himself `cause youre be too old for him...And you`ll be in trouble then, because nobody wants a lonely old woman...Older guys are better to stick with, and they are no worse in bed also..
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Now what do you folks think of this?
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What do you think of it? Why it seems to be normal if a woman dates a 30 years older man, but if a woman is with a lets say 10 years younger guy then people start looking..?
It`s a mostly a women talk there, here`s some comments that they wrote there so far...(Translation with my own words) One woman tells that the man should be older because she can`t quite talk the same with a boyfriend who`s same age as she..He doesn`t understand her well enough, she says man must be at least 20 years older, as more experienced man knows better all that and can comfort her better...She also says that the couples with pretty much the same age don`t last long, mainly `cause of this...
One tells that she knows a married couple where girl is 19 and a guy is 77! That`s not normal for sure..They also have 2 children already..
Other woman tells about her friend, who is 31 and married with a 59 year old man..That friend has said to her that she`s not expecting this relationship to last more than 10 years..Husband will be old then, but she`ll be without any financal problems then and will start looking for a 5-6 years younger guy..
( So one reason is the money of course...Women find themselves a rich man and then simply enjoy life. To me it doesn`t sound very bad actually, I wouldn`t mind dating a rich girl if to think about it, but still something is not right about this...Women who are there only for money are just...
)She also says that nowadays almost all young females think like that! They are looking for a wealthy man!
One other woman says though, that she can`t even imagine a relationship with a 10 years older man..No, no..Only guys close to her own age will do..
Then there`s a 15 year old girl telling that between her friends (all mostly at the same age), they only talk about guys in 30s...
But one woman tells that she is with a 15 year old younger guy and everything is as good as it gets..Already three years together..They go out all the time and really enjoy each other, but..they haven`t had sex yet though.. It is she who wants it that way.
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)The other woman that replied to her post, said "why you don`t want it then? Go ahead..it`s nothing wrong"
Then there is comment, that young woman think that with a wealthy man they are secured and without all the worries and the money just makes them blind, it`s not the REAL love...They`re just inexperienced in life. What they don`t realise is that an older man wants only one thing from them - good and fresh fuck! ...so he sort of only "uses" a younger woman, to feel himself a younger again..There can`t be no real love there. Sometimes a very bad man may happen to be and then the poor young girls get beaten up lots of times and get a lot of hurt in other ways from this kind of relationship..So it`s not good.
Then there`s one Triin who tells: "Why women think, that it`s always got to be an older guy...it very well aslo may be a younger one. I myself look younger and... I met with a guy who is 13 years younger than me. Younger...and it all goes just good, and I believe better, than if I`d be with a guy who is 13 years older..."
Reply to Triin was: Young guys aren`t very good, he will soon dump you and go find another one for himself `cause youre be too old for him...And you`ll be in trouble then, because nobody wants a lonely old woman...Older guys are better to stick with, and they are no worse in bed also..
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Now what do you folks think of this?
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