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Post by TrueDiva on Sept 22, 2004 10:25:11 GMT -5
That is right. And if people have an issue with me, I wish they would let me know. Apparently I wasn't doing a good job of making that clear. But if you're past it, again, why bring it up now? (nothing wrong with bringin it up, I'm just asking are you really past it?) Yes...trust me, I am.. ;D.....I was letting you know what was on my mind AFTER reading your apology..... It seems as if we're BOTH late with alot of things.  But as mama used to say " better late than never"  |
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Post by Ivory Fair on Sept 22, 2004 10:31:58 GMT -5
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Post by Ivory Fair on Sept 22, 2004 10:32:15 GMT -5
LOL! It's not!
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Post by MikeNYC on Sept 22, 2004 11:00:16 GMT -5
Ivory...I'm gonna tell you the real truth. I was gonna send it to you via I.M. The only problem is that when I would I.M. you before,you would not respond,and if I made a thread about what I wanted to tell you...you would take it like I was attacking you so I didn't.
This was the first board that I ever joined....I really loved this place...spent many hours posting,met many people whom I consider "FRIENDS" including you. I gave you the utmost respect for starting and keeping this board. Alot of things that goes on at other boards does not go on here. I've seen other boards attack other Tempts boards. That's why I will not allow anyone to even think about doing it on my board. I don't care if other boards attack mine. The only reason why I joined another board was because they attacked members of THIS board and I has hurt...for them,not me...you can't hurt me. I know who and what I am and I am very comfortable with me.
I have been attacked on this board and not complained,just gave back what was given to me. My Motto is...."Better to be pissed off than pissed on!"
I've heard a saying that "If life deals you lemons...make lemonade". The only problem that I have with that is lemonade and piss are the same color ...the only way that you can tell the two apart is...to taste. I'm not gonna do that.
Several times I tried to I.M. you and you never even opened them. I know because if you did ,you would have responded. You would know just how I felt about you and this board.
I had to have a talk with GOD on the things that happened last week ,with the nickname business and the F--k off post. I could not believe what I saw when I loged on and saw that post. I knew right then and there that people would not take to kindly to that. It hurt more people than it did me,I can cuss with the best of them. I can also cuss you out without using a cuss word. I was gonna wait for me to reach my personal goal which was 8000 post...and LET YOU HAVE IT in the same manner that you did to me.And it was gonna be at "PRIME TIME" meaning when all the active members were on,so if you deleated it...they would have seen it anyway.
But,I decided not to lower myself in the way that *I* felt you did when you told me to F**K off. Instead,I made light of it by saying that I didn't need to F**K off...I don't have to resort to that because I know someone that would gladly "Touch Me In The Morning",then just close the door.....go and get a drink of water ,then come back for more. Had I said this to you,you would have deleted me. I truly think that you were trying to bait me into doing that so you could delete me. I wasn't falling for that. So,I did things to piss you off,like put MikeNYC/TRUTHMAN! so you could see that yes you can run this board anyway you want to...but you can't run me!
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Post by Ivory Fair on Sept 22, 2004 11:13:21 GMT -5
Mike, those who took offense to my saying "f you" never saw the private exchanges you and I had in the past or maybe would have understood. And since I'd rather keep the petty bull shit we have between you I, you have a message.
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Post by brunneng on Sept 22, 2004 11:22:03 GMT -5
that's a pickle, lemme work on it. Yummm....pickles...aaahhhhha   ...ooh, I can tell, I'm losing you...... |
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Post by Ivory Fair on Sept 22, 2004 11:26:03 GMT -5
and for the record ................. I"m gonna say "f you" to ANYONE who calls me a liar when I KNOW I'm not
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Post by MikeNYC on Sept 22, 2004 11:29:06 GMT -5
This was not about a name,never was...that's childish. Especially since I never asked ANYONE for the name to begin with. Never asked you,Sukka,Kalisa,nobody. When I sad that you kept insisting that I did,so that's where the "SHE'S LYING" came from.I also put "TRUTHMAN in my ID because of the comment you made "The IVORY GIVETH...THE IVORY TAKETH AWAY". Nobody takes anything from me.Weather I want it or not. I'm in charge l of me. I don't try to control anyone else. All I want to do is coexist with them. I've been called "IGNORANT" by you and didn't cry about it,didn't give you the satisfaction on thinking that you could offend me. You can't...I'm too dense for that. My glass is always half full...never half empty. I always said that folks will be mad..long before I ever will....I think that you can see that's true.
I've been told that I was responsible for people not wanting to post...I think that you know see that is not the case. Like Shaggy said.."Wasn't Me". Hype offended more folks than I ever could. When those type of people came at me ...I chewed them up and spit them out. I didn't go crying to you,you weren't taking any of my communications at the time. Those were the ones that stopped posting because of me. But if they didn't do the things that they did..they wouldn't have ran off. Why do you think that I said that the fall guy is also the six million dollar man? Simple...because he is.
I'm not gonna be the reason for everything that went wrong/goes wrong on this board. I didn't start a new board to get back at you,either. Why? For what? I had no idea that folks would respond to the new board in the manner that they did. It was qutie moving. That was a message from GOD. I had five members joined before the board was ready for posting. 18 members in less than 24 hours. Folks couldn't wait for the board to open. Who am I to think that it would get that type of response. Truth be told,I really don't know all that much about the computer to expect that. But a try beats a failure. I hope that folks post on both boards. I will continue to post on this board..because if nothing else I met some very special people on this board and I had no idea that many felt the same way about me.
I hope that you post on my board,too. The board covers every Tempts lineup,so all tempts fans no matter what lineup that they favor there is something for them. Most important..they will not be attacked for their comments...there won't be posters attacking the board.
That's not dictating That's the Law Of The Land...weather they like it or understand. It's in the rules..everyone has to abide by them even the creators of the board...We are not above the rules.
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Post by keres on Sept 22, 2004 11:31:07 GMT -5
I`ve gone through some very bad moments on this Board as well...but i`m still here and staying positive! |
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Post by Ivory Fair on Sept 22, 2004 11:33:26 GMT -5
For the record....... The Ivory's not telling the truth if she says that *I* ask for a nickname. I was telling the truth as it was my recollection. No matter now, you're a "Temptaholic Supreme" now as you should have been all along. Your recollection was not the truth and you know it. As it turns out, the idea to give you the nick name was most likely the idea of a third party but, at the time, I understood that she was asking on your behalf. My hand on the Bible Mike, it was MY belief that you were asking me to give you that name. Where I come from, we do not take being called a liar. Call me a liar and I'll tell you to f off every time.  |
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Post by brunneng on Sept 22, 2004 11:35:08 GMT -5
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Post by Ivory Fair on Sept 22, 2004 11:37:42 GMT -5
See Mike, why are comments like that even necessary? Why do you have to be so aggressive? See now why I wasn't talking to you? I'm not a fan of getting my head bashed in.
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Post by Ivory Fair on Sept 22, 2004 11:38:59 GMT -5
And again, I'm not claiming that you are. MANY of US were involved.
Aw, screw it. It's not even worth the effort.
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Post by Ivory Fair on Sept 22, 2004 11:43:20 GMT -5
........... and you may have CONSIDERED me a friend, but I never felt that from you (and maybe I didn't give it back) but I'm just telling you the vibe I got.
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Post by brunneng on Sept 22, 2004 11:50:54 GMT -5
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